So you’re getting married?
Congratulations!
While you can’t wait to say I DO, you need to understand that there’s a lot that comes with planning a wedding, and even much more that comes with planning a marriage.
This is because wedding planning is a pretty lengthy process with all sorts of important details that must be considered and planned before the big day.
To help you successfully plan and prepare, this article highlights the things you have to do before you say “I Do”.
Let’s get started, shall we?
10 Things You Need to Do Before You Say I DO
Below are 10 things you should do before the wedding.
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Consider Marriage Counseling
There is no way you and your beloved is going to rule out this when it comes to the things to do before the big day. And there are lots of things to understand and know after the wedding. This is why marriage counseling is the first thing to do before you say I DO. This will ensure that you and your spouse are on the same page when it comes to values and expectations.
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Have a Health Check
Couples who got married, end up regretting especially when it comes to finding out late that they are both AS. Although, there are couples with AS genotypes that have gone on to have children that do not have SS genotypes. But sadly, the reverse is sometimes the case. Therefore, it is important to have a health check and get the right counseling and treatment so that you can have a healthy marriage and bear healthy children.
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Make a Wedding Budget
Make a list of the things you need to buy or rent for the wedding. Find out how much each one costs, and then total up the costs. That is your wedding budget. This will enable you know how much is required to have successful wedding.
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Plan Your Wedding
Now, this is another important thing to do. You’ve got to plan your wedding. That is, asking what type of wedding do you want to have? Is it traditional only or white or court wedding? What kind of venue do you want to use, indoor or outdoor or an open space venue? How many guests can you invite and how do you source for the drinks, gifts and souvenirs to give to your guests?
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Get Others Involved
Every successful wedding has never been carried out by one person alone. There are a lot of things you’ll need to do; like finding a caterer for your wedding, getting a venue, decorator, etc. Trying to do all by yourself is not effective, especially if you have a full time job. So you need to get other people involved and delegate these activities to them in ensuring that the wedding is pulled off successfully.
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Talk About Money
Don’t shy away from the subject of money with your partner. You need money to do your wedding and you also need money to sustain your marriage and raise a family. So money is a crucial thing you need to really factor in before you say I Do. Both of you need to be sure about the current sources of income available and the future plans to increase the family’s income as the marriage grows.
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Accept Your Beloved’s Family
There’s a saying in this part of the world that you don’t just marry someone, but their families as well. Ensure that you know and love the family you’re marrying into. Learn to accept your beloved’s family. Don’t wait till after wedding before you get to know your partner’s parents and siblings. It’s important to build a healthy rapport with them during your courtship.
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Ensure All Cards Are on the Table
One thing that can end a new marriage is secrets. So if there is something really important you need to tell your beloved before the wedding, now would be a good time to do so. Waiting till you tie the knot before letting some secrets out might not be a good idea on the long run.
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Plan Your Honeymoon
Even though you can’t afford the best resort in the world, it doesn’t mean that you and your spouse can’t have a good time during your honeymoon. You’ve got to plan your honeymoon by deciding where and when you and your spouse are going to spend a good time together after the wedding. Because the important thing is that you both have alone time to enjoy each other without any distractions.
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Have a Good Living Condition
One of the things you must consider before getting married is having a conducive place to stay. It doesn’t have to be on the banana island, it has to be a place for privacy, a safe environment to raise a family and proximity to the work place. Doesn’t make sense to look for accommodation after the wedding, sort that out before you say I do.
Conclusion
There you have it, 10 things you need to do before you say I DO. As you are considering tying the knot on your big day, ensure you get these things done. That is, if you really want to have a glorious wedding and a successful marriage.
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